by Ben Lai | Mar 16, 2016 | Emotional Intelligence
In his book “Emotional Intelligence,” Daniel Goleman puts forward a compelling case that this type of intellect is far better at predicting success than IQ. With the turbulence of emotions salespeople experience every day, it would pay generously (literally!) for us...
by Ben Lai | Mar 8, 2016 | Sales Ethics
Is there a place for self-Interest in sales? This is going to sound like an absolute contradiction to Integrity Selling, but I believe that all people are inherently self-interested. Before you get offended at my apparent cynicism of humanity, I’m not trying to...
by Ben Lai | Mar 2, 2016 | Sales Ethics
When I wrote about “Integrity Selling,” I suggested that for salespeople, working with integrity meant speaking and acting truthfully. In a profession where our primary role is to move products and generate revenue, this advice can sound like a complete contradiction....
by Ben Lai | Feb 26, 2016 | Emotional Intelligence
There’s a certain irony to having the mighty king of the jungle Savannah as our universal symbol of courage. At the top of the food chain, they have very little to fear. Most people in my audiences seem to understand that courage is not the absence of fear, but the...
by Ben Lai | Feb 17, 2016 | Sales Prospecting
Okay, I’ll admit it upfront – the title of this article is slightly misleading. The reason I’m writing is that I can relate to the dread being blocked from speaking to prospects by gatekeepers. I want to offer some help as someone who specialised in appointment...